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hike and camp and the time to do both
OK, I apologize that this post was drafted in March and sat untouched due to me being busy with work, family, and creating all of my...
Dionne Mills
Apr 243 min read
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Bay of Islands Overnight Adventure Cruise
Another trip up north to the Bay of Islands (3.5 hours north of our home in Auckland). This time with my father and stepmother in tow....
Dionne Mills
Jan 61 min read
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Seeing your home through others' eyes
Four Summers. I cannot believe that it has been four summers that my family and I have had the privilege of spending in beautiful...
Dionne Mills
Jan 23 min read
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My peace. My happy place
It's been about a month since I uninstalled Facebook and Instagram from my phone. I have become increasingly overwhelmed by my empathic...
Dionne Mills
Dec 20, 20232 min read
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Sydney
In July I went to Sydney Australia for a medical symposium. I love every opportunity to increase my understanding of aspects of my...
Dionne Mills
Aug 25, 20232 min read
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Making the most of a quick weekend trip
We decided to make a weekend of having to drive 3hrs south of Auckland to Rotorua for the RANZCOG ceremony some weekends ago. By the...
Dionne Mills
Jul 8, 20232 min read
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A FRANZCOG to add to my FACOG
When we became a Fellow of ACOG (the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists), we weren't given a moment to be recognized for...
Dionne Mills
Jun 26, 20231 min read
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A holiday after the storms and reflection about treaties
In the middle of February, before the end of summer, we drove north to the Bay of Islands for a weekend getaway that I'd planned months...
Dionne Mills
Mar 13, 20233 min read
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A Saturday walk with the family
Confession. I found the draft of this post that I started months ago. It was after a 20 minute drive north, to Point Chevalier Beach. A...
Dionne Mills
Mar 12, 20231 min read
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Oh the Places You'll Go!
The other day, Randy was perusing his phone and this came up in his Google Maps. It made us pause in wonder to see all the places we'd...
Dionne Mills
Jan 7, 20233 min read
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Peace and Joy
We Are Exhausted If you have been paying attention to the words of Black activists, particularly those who identify as women, you would...
Dionne Mills
Dec 18, 20222 min read
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Therapy Session
So... I know that my last post was a bit heavy. I admit that I was in my feelings, but who could blame me? I hope that those of you who...
Dionne Mills
Nov 28, 20222 min read
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A Memorable Week
I have a few posts sitting in drafts. Posts that I'd started, that are definitely relevant, but that I haven't had the mental "energy" to...
Dionne Mills
Sep 26, 20224 min read
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Pregnancy in medical training. An American vs Kiwi perspective
I am often asked by colleagues in the US about some of the differences I have noticed between working in the US vs New Zealand. There...
Dionne Mills
Aug 26, 20222 min read
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One Year in Aotearoa. Randy and I discuss
Today marks the day when we landed in Aotearoa. It was strange to think that we'd left on the night of August 10th Los Angeles time but...
Dionne Mills
Aug 11, 20221 min read
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One year in Aotearoa through the eyes of the children
On August 10th, we left the US via LAX and after a 12 hr. flight we awoke to August 12th in New Zealand, ready for our new lives. Since...
Dionne Mills
Aug 8, 20221 min read
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Some pictures lost but memories made
It is winter here in Aotearoa. The kids are on a two week school holiday. Last week my family and I flew to the South Island and visited...
Dionne Mills
Jul 20, 20222 min read
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Reclaiming my Time and my Peace and My Salsa!
Yesterday was a day of reclaiming my peace and joy after a week filled with anger and frustration and sadness about the atrocities taking...
Dionne Mills
May 28, 20222 min read
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The Whys that break my heart
I walked up to the school today I heard the children laugh and play I heard them calling to their friends I saw them hugging, holding...
Dionne Mills
May 26, 20223 min read
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May 20, 20220 min read
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Day Trippin again
Last Sunday we went to a place that had been on my list for some time now. It is where we were trying to go the Sunday prior but the...
Dionne Mills
Mar 3, 20221 min read
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Day Trippin
Last weekend, I was so excited to take the family on a hike that I had on my list for some time. We woke up early, drove about 40 mins...
Dionne Mills
Feb 26, 20221 min read
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Six months already
My children often laugh when I say that I cannot believe that we live in this wonderful place. I am often asked if they are adjusting to...
Dionne Mills
Feb 12, 20221 min read
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Balance Found
At least once a week I tell Randy that I cannot believe this is now my life. Our life. Knowing that that which feeds my soul, what I...
Dionne Mills
Feb 4, 20223 min read
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The Sillik Kids Reflect and Look Forward.
We have been in New Zealand for about 5 months. Micah, Makayla and Kai went from online school in the US to zoom learning here to finally...
Dionne Mills
Jan 30, 20221 min read
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When vision becomes reality
I have a picture from Cathedral Cove in the Coromandel peninsula on my blog page. I picked it because it was majestic and beautiful and...
Dionne Mills
Dec 26, 20212 min read
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When life can be a vacation
There are three very nice beaches within 8 minutes from our house. Although I had wanted to leave the US for years, Randy and I were also...
Dionne Mills
Oct 8, 20211 min read
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This Island Girl and the Sea
Today, despite the on again off again rains, I compelled Randy to indulge me in a drive to a nearby beach. We hadn't ventured very far...
Dionne Mills
Sep 8, 20211 min read
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To the left to the left
When Randy and I and our two eldest children (I was pregnant with our third at the time) visited my homeland of Trinidad years ago for my...
Dionne Mills
Sep 3, 20212 min read
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Delayed gratification and Gratitude in Lockdown
It has been an interesting experience moving to another country during a pandemic and lockdown. The pendulum between discouragement and...
Dionne Mills
Aug 28, 20212 min read
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Dionne Mills
Aug 25, 20210 min read
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Getting back on Schedule
It is Monday here in New Zealand. Most of us have worked out our jet lag kinks and I have been dying to get the kids on a productive...
Dionne Mills
Aug 15, 20211 min read
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Aug 11, 20210 min read
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Some thoughts before leaving Arizona
Our many bags were checked in and we spent a few more minutes with one of my younger sisters before heading to our gate.
Dionne Mills
Aug 9, 20211 min read
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See you in NZ, container!
A family of 5 has a lot of things. We had to leave behind a few items that couldn't fit in the container and will be selling them next...
Dionne Mills
Jul 31, 20211 min read
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Moving out and Container Day!
FIFTEEN suitcases FIVE hand luggage FOUR backpacks ONE really large tote bag THREE children and TWO adults all drove with the above items...
Dionne Mills
Jul 30, 20212 min read
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Our Word for New Zealand
It has been another day filled with last preparations, packing and sorting. We only have less than 2 days left in this house before it is...
Dionne Mills
Jul 25, 20211 min read
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The struggle is real, but my husband makes me proud!
I am at work on my 24hr shift and Randy and the kids have been busy most of the day sorting out the kids' clothing. Three fast growing...
Dionne Mills
Jun 30, 20212 min read
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It only seems fitting
On March 8th, National Women's Day, I was able to add something else to my list of accomplishments. Author. For the record, when I was in...
Dionne Mills
Jun 28, 20212 min read
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The Kids on Moving to New Zealand
Ever since we informed the kids in August of last year that we have decided to move to New Zealand, we've had many conversations with...
Dionne Mills
May 29, 20211 min read
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Black hair on the move...
When planning a move thousands of miles away as a multiracial family, there are considerations that need to be calculated into the...
Dionne Mills
May 22, 20211 min read
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Book review with Micah Sillik
Last year, I had my eldest read Stamped- Racism, antiracism, and you by Ibram Kendi, adapted to youth version by Jason Reynolds. I had...
Dionne Mills
May 11, 20211 min read
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